Did You Say Three
Percent?
One of the most difficult experiences for me during my Peace Corps service was being in the presence of locals who thought I was Basotho. You see, I am an African-American, and I was selected to serve in the small African country of Lesotho, near the southern tip of the continent.
My first experience with miss-identification came during training. In Peace Corps, you live with a host family
for approximately 3 months. Your family
teaches you to cook, bathe, fetch water, and do other household chores, while the
training staff teaches you language, safety and security, and integration, among
other essential living requirements. Local host families are also instructed in what to expect from a visiting
American.
I had been in Lesotho less than a few weeks when this
encounter took place. A funeral for a prominent member of
the village was scheduled for the coming Saturday. Many people were traveling far and wide to attend.
When I arrived home from classes that day, there was a very
old man at the homestead. I was told he
was a family member and was here to attend the upcoming funeral. Of course since he no longer lived in the
village, he had no idea what a Peace Corps volunteer was.
As is customary for a volunteer, I began greeting him with my newly learned Sesotho phrases. Sesotho is the first language
of the Basotho. After completing the greeting, and exhausting my Sesotho
knowledge, I begin to speak with my host mother very slowing in English, to
help her to also learn my language and to better understand me.
Immediately, the old man started yelling at me to “Speak
Sesotho! Speak Sesotho!” Startled, I
looked over at my host mother pleadingly.
She addressed this old man in Sesotho explaining that I was from America
and did not speak Sesotho. The old man
wasn’t buying it. He insisted that I was
Basotho and should only speak Sesotho.
He was very angry. All I could do
to escape his wrath was to retreat to my room and lock the door. I hid from him the remainder of the week.
This type of confrontation was to become commonplace during my 27
months stay in the Mountain Kingdom... be it walking the
streets, visiting a friend, shopping, at the taxi rank, or in a taxi, I was expected to speak and understand Sesotho fluently. (I once had a taxi conductor refuse to accept my money because I did not respond to him in Sesotho.) I finally figured out that by speaking the little Sesotho that I knew to begin a conversation I was getting myself in a lot of trouble at the end,
I decided that it was better for me to forgo the Sesotho lessons and speak
English at all times.
I must admit that from the very beginning I felt a kindred spirit with the
Basotho. I studied their history before
I arrived and as much as I could during my stay. I know that they are a very proud people, dedicated to their heritage and their culture. Legend has it that their tiny country was preserved after fighting off the Boers with sticks and rocks. They became my friends and my family away from home. I love their country, and I love them.
I returned to America in July 2014 and I feel as though I am
finally adjusted to the American way of life again.
Recently, I had the DNA of my mother and father tested. And, after much anticipation, my mothers' test results have arrived.
I am 3% Basotho after all.
Sorry old man... you were right.
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